Do your daughter dating loser
She will be staying with her friend for a month and then off to school in the fall. We fought over it alot, but finally I said I was done..she would have to suffer the consequences of his using and would have to learn for herself. I felt when she lived with me she had less responsiblilty.didn't pay rent, used most of her money to support him. The more she has to do for herself AND him, the more she will realize how much he is taking advantage of her, and she will see how much easier it was for her when she was living home because you made it easier. He is too immature and needs his mommy to take care of him as well. She was moved back in by the time we got home, and never talked to that slime ball again... She has to know that whatever the choice, the consequences go with it.All her friends told her he was a jerk, but when she moved out, she finally saw him for what he really was, dumped him and moved back home. I am hoping my daughter wakes up sooner than later. I tried to encourage her to save moeny to put money away and she would like but wouldn't show me her bank books. She should get a good dose of what being used is like now that she has to bear the brunt of all the responsibilities herself. It will be a good life lesson for her, and hopefully she will go on to make better choices in boyfriends in the future. I hope she sees that he is a master user/manipulator. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you, and hopefully she'll meet a doctor or lawyer at college!
As for this guy I think he's a smaller monster than you make him out to be. I thing for all intense and purposes she is a pretty well grounded young adult. I know so many guys like this, including two of my husband's brothers.
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He also needs to work in this relationship without meddling in order to learn to be a better man. I am so happy to read that things worked out for your daughter. My daughter's loser moved on to another unknowing young girl, and unfortunately got her pregnant. I pity that child, having the kind of father that is every mother's worst nightmare.
Your daughter will come around, as long as everyone backs off, and lets her discover it for herself.