Dating customs in south america
I can say that I finally grasped the reasons that are responsible for making American dating culture so complex and so radically different from pretty much dating in any other country.
And these reasons have less to do with American women specifically than with American culture as a whole.
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My dilemma was that I could never rationally understand why dating is so confusing and complicated in America.
Lots of explanations are given by lots of people, but none of them truly explain the whole story.
Again, I expected her to get a little uncomfortable, but, to my surprise, she boldly began sharing her opinions on this subject as thought she had discussed exactly this topic countless times before. It’s the fact that I wanted to genuinely flirt—flirt without all the politically correct bullshit on subjects that have already been discussed ad naseum—but I couldn’t.
One thing is always for sure: when you have an opinion, you’ll always want to defend it; you’ll want to prove to others that opinion is correct and someone else’s opinion is wrong.This naturally leads to people wanting to endlessly discuss all kinds of topics (how many times have you heard the pseudo-expression “let’s keep an open dialogue”? And that opens the door for more and more discussions. I first eased into “safe” and boring topics like work and travel.One night I had a date with a cute 29-year-old American girl. At some point we began talking about dating and she told me a story about her feminist friend who’s doing a Ph D on “cat calling.” I used that opportunity to ease further into other sexual topics. We were sitting across from each other, drinking beers and openly discussing various sexual topics.Can you imagine sitting across the table at a bar from a sexy Brazilian/Colombian/Russian girl and having a rather serious and formal conversation about some sexual topic? So, why keep it politically correct and continue discussing the pros and cons of some mundane topic?After mutual interest is established, the next step is to immediately move onto more interesting and physical things. In America, you don’t get out of this discussion phase. It requires a certain level of confidence and self-esteem. On the other hand, a discussion about generally accepted things isn’t risky and therefore doesn’t require much confidence.
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Southern European cultures have pretty tough and “masculine” women; the stereotypical traditional Italian wife, for example, is very “tough” and “ball-busting” as demonstrated by her ability to run the house hold and even control her tough Italian husband. I wanted to put American dating under the microscope and study it like a scientist who studies microorganisms in his science lab.