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Yet, the irony is that statistically arranged marriages prove to be more successful and lasting than romantic types of courtship.
This is because people are blinded by the physical attraction and thus do not choose the compatible partner.
There is an Arabic proverb that says: "Love is blind, it makes zucchini turn into okra".
Arranged marriages, on the other hand, are based not on physical attraction or romantic notions, but rather on critical evaluation of the compatibility of the couple. The West makes fun of the Islamic way of marriage, in particular arranged marriage.
Since there are many misconceptions about Islam and we have two active Muslim members here (Both singles by the way ) I am very curious about the following:1. What I mean by that is, in some traditional families in India (Hinduism) the parents arranged the marriages for their children.
I heard there is not such a thing as "Dating", basically when you meet the person you want to marry you pretty much do that right away without a period of dating or courting, is that true? Are you allowed as a Muslim to date/marry a non-Muslim? This is basically it and the couple are officially married. I would never be in any relationship where I thought I was just an option in one of many marriages. Lets say if this was reversed, could the men do it?
After being "involved" with a person for a time, and then breakiing up and going through the feelings of remorse or loneliness and unhappiness, and then moving on to the next "relationship" and then another break-up, hard feelings, sadness and then yet another series of dating, hanging out, breaking up and so on." prior to marriage, falling in love, arguing, breaking up and then going through the sad feelings and repeating this over and over, are much more likely to end up in a very rough marriage and very possible divorce.
One can also seek the help of the Imam of the Islamic Center where the girl’s father goes, to talk with him about this, and always pray earnestly to Allah to help realize the dream if it’s good.
Choose the one who is religious, may your hands be rubbed with dust [i.e., may you prosper]! If she is not, then you should reconsider your choice.
May Allah help you to do what He loves and what pleases Him!
All those stories of media and movies are not helpful to make a person comply with the teachings of Islam.
You may be surprised to learn the subject of Divorce - is also mentioned and dealt with in very clear terms, to insure that it does not happen except with due consideration and proper representation and insurance of rights for both parties.